tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720302426124864555.post4207604419762859680..comments2023-06-03T05:53:46.302-07:00Comments on Hilary's Blog: No title to describe this posthilaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18417858586469192048noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720302426124864555.post-84173266077779581812007-12-22T20:16:00.000-08:002007-12-22T20:16:00.000-08:00Wow, Hilary. What amazing words from some of the ...Wow, Hilary. What amazing words from some of the best women in the world. I hope you've ready every word very carefully. Go back and read them again and again and take them to heart. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry living in Utah was such a bad experience. But I think it taught you a very painful lesson that you needed to learn, and there was no other way to learn it.<BR/><BR/>Laura's right. . . I'm here for you. Always have been. Always will be.Jason, as himselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16630210317307544165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720302426124864555.post-81359853841844689262007-12-22T13:48:00.000-08:002007-12-22T13:48:00.000-08:00Hilary, don't regret your "troubled days" learn fr...Hilary, don't regret your "troubled days" learn from them, grow from them and most of all, look back on them and laugh. You are not alone, so many of us in this family have made mistakes, taken chances, and fallen. But we all made it here, we are all great people. You have so much going for you, you determine what comes of your life. With out chances, and falls and burns, we would never learn & grow. Our past makes our presence, and it's your turn to give this baby everything you never had.. It may be kisses every twenty seconds, or it may be a well deserved nap. Shower this baby with love and support, have no regrets. We all love you, and think about you often. Your mother is right, and she loves you. Jason is there for you, and always has been. Use your resources, and NEVER be afraid to ask for help, no matter your age. You are beautiful, and full of life, and I can not wait to meet this baby that you have created!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13846382092476796153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720302426124864555.post-14819377905495299282007-12-21T08:33:00.000-08:002007-12-21T08:33:00.000-08:00Oh, sweet Hilary, you break my heart! I wish I wo...Oh, sweet Hilary, you break my heart! I wish I would have spent more time with you while you were here. Please know you are loved an appreciated by so many people. Love, your Common Law Auntie :) JenalynJenalynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05898589256979878936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720302426124864555.post-28146767504662625942007-12-20T20:48:00.000-08:002007-12-20T20:48:00.000-08:00A secret that only I know you existed.The feeling ...A secret that only I know you existed.<BR/>The feeling that you were mine and all mine.<BR/>Knowing that our love would last a lifetime and beyond.<BR/>No matter what we were a part of each other forever.<BR/>Looking into your eyes for the first time and seeing the depth of your soul.<BR/>Spending those first few days alone getting to know each others ways.<BR/>Your skin so velvety soft and your breath so innocently sweet.<BR/>The way you looked to me for comfort and warmth.<BR/>The way I needed your need of me.<BR/>So sweet. So wonderful that love has grown.<BR/>So powerful the spirit finds an adulthood as it strains.<BR/>We have been tested and yet we have clung on to that love.<BR/>Two decades of intermittent closeness and a rapid return to sameness.<BR/>The understanding that we are going to make it together in this old world.<BR/>A sense of cautiousness when feelings are fragile and misunderstanding is near.<BR/>Joy at your successes.<BR/>Smiles at your genuine laughter.<BR/>Sadness at your intense struggles.<BR/>Guilt that I cannot live your life for you when it gets so tough.<BR/>Pride that you can make good decisions and find your own way.<BR/>That you are about to find your own first true love awes and humbles me.<BR/>Satisfaction that through you our family is blessed twofold.<BR/>A sense of sweet happiness that it is all going to be okay.<BR/><BR/>You were my first true love.Claire Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15400182311464157365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720302426124864555.post-40253324733488702632007-12-20T20:42:00.000-08:002007-12-20T20:42:00.000-08:00and the best part of being a grown up now is that ...and the best part of being a grown up now is that you are part of the "grown up woman club". This family has so many woman to surround yourself with and they are all such a positive influence. Women need women. <BR/><BR/>As a mom you will learn that you will do your very best every day with all of your capability. Some days, weeks, months you will feel highly capable. Others you will be less able but still doing your best for that time. All we can do is our best.<BR/><BR/>This time of your life is very special. You are entering motherhood and womanhood after being a child for too long yet maybe not long enough. I wish I could give you back some of the years that were tough on our family. I can't. You know how much you are loved by me. <BR/><BR/>As you emerge from these teenage years you will understand the pressures of adulthood and also the freedoms. You have my support. <BR/><BR/>Finally, when this baby comes you are going to be busier than the rest of us. Gestation is a long boring waiting game for every mom. Hang in there kid. The ride is about to begin.<BR/><BR/>xoxoxo MomClaire Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15400182311464157365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720302426124864555.post-44539329868645856792007-12-20T09:27:00.001-08:002007-12-20T09:27:00.001-08:00PS: sorry I didn't proof read that!PS: sorry I didn't proof read that!Lacking Productivityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14193383631044276171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720302426124864555.post-24022757834612755742007-12-20T09:27:00.000-08:002007-12-20T09:27:00.000-08:00Hilary, I don't know you very well at all and we s...Hilary, I don't know you very well at all and we share to very different backgrounds. I obviously can't tell you that I know how you feel, so I won't even attempt. I have, however, felt like an inconvenience and I know how it feels to be hurt, and they both suck. Everybody wants to feel valued, appreciated and loved. Everybody wants to feel like they are worth far more than the small amount of space they take up in the world. Everyday of your life hasn't been like that, Hilary and I can't imagine that doesn't kill you inside.<BR/><BR/>But you are in a unique position. You are only weeks away from becoming a mom, a job that you will have for a whole lot longer than just the "18 years" you are legally responsible. You will be a mom for life. For so many years, everything in your child's life is going to depend on you. YOU will be the most important person in your house. YOU will be the person that child is depending on for survival, patience, appreciation and love. You can make your baby's life what you want it. You will be in charge of insuring that your child never feels like a nuisance or an annoyance. <BR/><BR/>This is your chance to start your life anew with you child's new life. Be the person you want to be. <BR/><BR/>Be true. Be true to who you are, dig deep, find yourself. Find independence in yourself: someone who is independent is rarely a nuisance. <BR/><BR/>Be faithful. Have hope that things can always get better. You know what you are capable of and you have endured a ton of crap, you can get through it. <BR/><BR/>Be loyal. There are so many people out there who can and want to help you. There are so many people who sincerely love you. Stick with them. Love them. <BR/><BR/>Be grateful. No matter how crappy things feel, no matter how crappy things actually are, no matter how much you don't think there is any possible way they could get worse...there is always something to be grateful for and I promise you, if you make those the things you appreciate the center of your life, it will be easier...it won't be easy...but it will be easier.<BR/><BR/>Be forgiving...mostly of me. I hope this didn't feel like a lecture. I am in no position to lecture you, I know that, and I don't want to. I just want to let you know I care, and I think about you, and gosh dang it, I pray about you Hilary. I seriously do. I wish the best for you and ya, I love you too. <BR/><BR/>Sorry I am so wordy. <BR/><BR/>-KiraLacking Productivityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14193383631044276171noreply@blogger.com